How it works

We start with safety - no names, emails or phones. Our process will allow us to find matches for you and deliver them once every week. Once you rank your matches, you can request verifications or just start chatting.

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    Sign up

    Claim a private username. No phone, email, or socials required.

    We respect your privacy. We don’t collect phone numbers, email, or social accounts to join.

    Usernames and 3-word passphrases are generated for you so you stay anonymous, private, and safer while you decide who to talk to.

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    Tell us about yourself

    Answer only what you’re comfortable sharing.

    This kickstarts the matchmaking. The more you answer, the easier it is for the right people to find you.

    There are many categories with several questions to choose from. Fill in only what feels right—you can always add more later.

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    Tell us what you’re searching for

    Describe the kind of person and connection you want.

    Your search is separate from your “about me.” That’s how we can match both directions fairly.

    Start with what matters most. You can refine over time—try what you can and improve as you learn what works.

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    Pick a day for your YesNoMaybe

    Choose which day each week your fresh batch arrives.

    We don’t push endless swiping. Once a week, we deliver a ranked list of matches based on how you and others answered.

    Pick the weekday that fits your life. That’s your batch day.

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    Check back weekly

    Open your new batch when it’s ready—no scramble required.

    Quality takes a little time. Checking once a week keeps the experience calm and intentional.

    If you ever need results sooner, boosts are available—without turning the whole product into a swipe feed.

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    Tag results Yes / Maybe / No

    Sort your batch the same way a real matchmaker would.

    Yes means you’re open to next steps. Maybe saves them for later. No means not a fit right now.

    We respect your No so you’re not stuck in each other’s lists—and you can still change your mind later if you need to.

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    Request a photo exchange

    Faces come after interest—not before.

    You control what you share and when. Request photos when a Yes feels promising; the other person decides what to share back.

    This keeps the experience data-first and safer than public photo browsing.

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    Request a chat

    Only after mutual interest—no cold messages.

    Chat opens when both sides have said Yes (and accept the request). You’re not open to strangers from a public grid.

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    Start talking

    Have a real conversation—on your terms.

    Talk at your pace. If you use different languages, we can help with translation so both of you stay comfortable.

    Optional tools can suggest better questions than “how was your weekend”—but the conversation is always yours.